A very... personal question.

Hi · February 07, 2008, 10:32:40 PM

Okay... I know this is veryodd question. I am asking it on this site because... well... I'd be way to embarresed to ask anybody who I know in real life, leaving me with the internet. And I trust the people on this site.

Where should I start? I go to a very small privat school which I love. The 7th and 8th graders are combined into one class which totals 7 kids. (I told you it was small.) I'm in the 8th grade, and in the 7th grade there's a... girl... who I think I have a crush on... and I'm pretty sure she has a crush on me to...

NEED I SAY MORE? :/

So, I'm sure there's people here that have had much more experiance with this kind of thing than me. Does anyon have any sort of advice they could offer?

The situation is actually slightly more complicated than that, but one question at a time.

P.S.I just want everyone to know, I have matured A LOT since the time when I was really active on this site. I think I said and did some stupid things back then, but I'm learning and growing and changing, and continue to do so now, learning from my mistakes.

fexo · February 08, 2008, 04:46:05 AM

.........and your spelling has improved considerably!

I'm too old to remember those days (even worse as I went to an all boys school- girls were something totally different and it was even worse!) so can't help.

socket · February 08, 2008, 08:53:44 AM

Hi Hi... Don't know what to say... You kind of have to just figure it out. I think the best thing to do is to just be yourself.

Doggy124 · February 08, 2008, 10:00:59 AM

I'm in 10th but...my class has 50 boys but no girl

So I don't think I can answer this

Devil_Spawn · February 08, 2008, 12:28:25 PM

Hi, i know the feeling, but, the best advice is, and always will be, even if you dont like it, just go with the flow... be yourself.

Perseid · February 08, 2008, 01:41:08 PM

Here's my only hint: If the girl does have a crush on you too there's a 99% chance she's just as nervous and uncertain as you are. So don't worry about doing something dorky. If you do, she probably won't even notice for fear of being dorky herself.

tennisgy · February 12, 2008, 12:48:18 PM

Ask her to be your valentine, if she says no act non chalant, if yes you win. Either way you don't lose because asking a girl out on valentines is so common you couldn't possibly be embarrased lol

Haoie · February 13, 2008, 04:51:20 AM

I'll say, you're lucky, Valentine's is only a day or 2 away. Ask her out, dude.

Man, this makes me feel old [I'm 22].